Where is life heading to

Life is full of unanswered questions.The more you solve it,the more puzzled it becomes.

The current debate in my mind is about the institution of marriage and the importance of relations in someone's life.I had been a great advocate of marriage and had always encouraged my friends to get married and settle down in life.But somehow the belief has started to dwindle and the mind is filled up with uncertaininties and fear on the very thought of marriage.

The other aspect is about importance of relationships in life.Now I have really started feeling "the more the number of people in your life the more lonlier you are".Not sure where my life is leading to but I am getting more and more disturbed.Want to write many more things but would stop here.......

Beautiful Lines From "THE DIVINE ROMANCE" by Guruji

Man needs intellectuality but intellect must be tempered with love.Love is the that takes away the harshness of intelligence and smooths your intellectuality.With both Wisdom and Love,you become a useful, practical piece of furniture that is admired by all, and loved by God.

All great saints who have come on earth have chiseled their lives with wisdom and love and meditation into perfect spiritual psychological furniture that will forever serve the mankind and decorate eternally the kingdom of God

Friendship and Friends-Oxygen Of Life

A day which started of well and ended well after a long long time.Some persons really make your life beautiful and add new dimensions to it.Apart from your parents who are embodiment of God on earth ,there are few homo-sapiens called friends.Friends have a deep impact in your life.In a life full of sandy storms there are cool breeze who take the heat off and make u really feel good.Few quality friends can change the way you think,the way you act and the way you look at various aspects of life.They are a constant source of inspiration and encouragement.I am fortunate enough to have few quality friends who have played crucial role at various stages in my life.

A Different Beginning -2009

Lot of phone calls ringing and same statement is heard from the other side " HAPPY NEW YEAR".Every year this statement created a new energy and gave a new strength to strive forward but this time there was no such feeling.One of the main reasons leading to this was the 26/11 attack in Mumbai and the second one a strange feeling of loneliness

The day started off with visit to the abode of Lord Jagannath,Lord Balabhadra and Maa Subhadra seeking for the peace of all the souls who left us in the Mumbai attack and starting the New Year in an auspicious manner.There were few small children near the chappal stand asking for the chappals so that they can get few coins.Somehow there was a feeling not to allow the children to touch the chappals and to do it ourselves ,as they are also the creation of the same almighty as we are.

As soon as the prayer to the lord was over eyes started searching for familiar faces and acquaintances but all in vain.There was a strange sense of emptiness and lot of mixed feelings.Few questions creeped in mind like Is it worthy enough to stay away from your parents for some amount of money? Where are all the friends gone? Is this New Year really a happy one?

Every step walked today,every movement of body,every change in posture lead to the vacuum created in the present life as a result of staying away from parents,family and friends.Relationships are so important in life and nothing can replace the warmth,happiness,pleasure,satisfaction as provided by your near and dear ones.

Few Important Questions

Life a four letter word though looks small has a gigantic essence.Human beings the most powerful creation of almighty has a special purpose from its conception till the death.Every stage that a human being passes through has a specific role.There are a lots of questions which a human being encounters during its existence in this world e.g What is the purpose of my life?
Am I happy with what I have? Do I need to earn more money to be happy? Have I made my parents feel proud about me......and many more.These numerous questions constantly and periodically creeps up and makes a person unstable.These questions can either make a person very strong or make him highly vulnerable to different negative attributes.

The first question is the most important one and the answer to it is the key for other queries as well.A person is able to find peace and harmony if he or she knows the purpose of thier life.It's the most difficult and the most important question.The solution to it may arrive immedialtely,may take an entire lifetime or may not come at all.The sooner the better.

In this environment of negative attractions,hectic life style,high standard of living humans hardly seek the solution of this question.But with dedication to almighty,respect to parents who are embodiment of GOD on earth and love for fellow human beings there is a probability of making it during lifetime.Finding an answer to it will automatically unfold the remaining questions.

Negativity - An Ephimeral State

Ngeative thinking many a times helps in finding a way out to positive outcomes.It's just like the hindi idiom "Jaher hi jaher ko kata hai" . Many a times when you are down and out and a sense of loneliness creeps in,the mind tries to find a way through.The first positive thought which comes in this situation is to make the almighty as your best friend.This makes you closer to God and leads to sanctification of your thoughts and deeds.The second positivity which makes its way is finding happiness by seeing other's happy or becoming a cause to other's happiness.The third optimistic effect is finding happiness with your own self (the ultimate one).Once this is achieved a human being can be happy,relaxed and filled with positive energy under the most toughest of circumstances.Negativity is ephimeral and can be replaced by positivity,belief in almighty and passion for living for fellow human beings.

A Prayer To The Lord

Itni shakti hume dena Data,maan ka biswas kamzor ho na
Door Agyan ke ho andhere,tu hume gyan ki roshni de
Har burai se bachte rahe hum,jitni bhi de bhale zindagi de
Ber hona kisi ka kisi se,bhavna maan main badle ki ho na,
Hum chale nek raste pe humse, bhool kar bhi koi bhool ho na
Itni shakti hume dena Data,maan ka biswas kamzor ho na
Hu na soche hume kya mila hai,hum ye soche kiya kya hai arpan,
Phool khusiyon ki baten sabhi ko sab ka jeevan hi ban jaye madhuban,
Apni karuna ka jal tu bahake ,kar de pawan har ek maan ka kona,
Hum chale nek raste pe humse, bhool kar bhi koi bhool ho na
Itni shakti hume dena data,maan ka biswas kamzor ho na